Real Talk, Real Men

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Don’t Man Up – Speak Up. Changing the Conversation

Men often struggle to seek mental health support due to societal pressures. The 'stiff upper lip' mentality discourages them from opening up, leading to devastating consequences, including high suicide rates.

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How Coaching Supports the UK’s New Men’s Health Strategy

The UK government’s first-ever men’s health strategy focuses on critical issues like mental health, suicide prevention, heart disease, and cancer, aiming to address the long-standing healthcare disparities men have faced and improve overall men’s health outcomes.

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Men's Health Crisis: 2 in 3 Avoid Asking for Help

Men in the UK are facing a silent health crisis, with two-thirds avoiding help for mental and physical health issues. This reluctance to seek support can have severe consequences, impacting both individuals and society as a whole.

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Letting Go of Masculine Stereotypes to Improve Mental Health

Cultural expectations around masculinity like "real men don’t cry" can create invisible barriers, preventing emotional expression and leave men isolated. These stereotypes not only reinforce toxic masculinity but also take a serious toll on mental health.

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Breaking the Silence on Men’s Mental Health at Work

Men’s mental health challenges in the workplace are an issue that many organisations overlook, yet they significantly impact employees and overall productivity. Anxiety, stress, burnout, and feelings of isolation are common, driven by long working hours, high expectations, and the pressure to appear resilient

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Silent Struggles: A Look at Silent Men and Why We Need to Talk

I recently came across an article in The Sunday Post about Duncan Cowles’ documentary, Silent Men, and it got me thinking. The documentary dives into a topic that hits close to home for many men and the the challenge of talking openly about emotions. We’ve all grown up with messages that men should stay strong, keep calm, and carry on.

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Movember: A Time to Raise Awareness for Men's Mental Health

As we step into November, we’re reminded of Movember, a month dedicated to raising awareness about men’s health issues, including the often-overlooked aspect of mental health. While many know Movember for its iconic moustaches, its core mission is to encourage men to speak openly about their mental health and to seek help when they need it.

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Liam Payne's Mental Health Struggles and the Importance of Men Speaking Out and Seeking Help.

Recently, singer Liam Payne has opened up about his mental health struggles, revealing the intense challenges he faced during and after his time with One Direction. Payne candidly shared his experience with alcoholism, addiction, and suicidal thoughts, particularly highlighting how fame, isolation, and media pressure led him down a dark path.

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